Proud Of or Proud For? Examples and Natural Alternatives

Quick Answer

"Proud of" is correct. Say "I'm proud of you," not "I'm proud for you."

The Rule

Proud of = the standard preposition to use with "proud"

In English, we are "proud of" someone or something. This is a fixed collocation - "proud" almost always takes the preposition "of."

Note: Some people informally say "proud for you" to mean "happy on your behalf," but this is not standard. Use "happy for you" instead.

What Follows "Proud Of"?

  • People: I'm proud of my daughter.
  • Oneself: You should be proud of yourself.
  • Achievements: She's proud of her accomplishments.
  • Things: We're proud of our work.
  • Gerunds: I'm proud of finishing the marathon.

Examples

I am so proud of you!
I am so proud for you!
We are proud of our team's success.
We are proud for our team's success.
She is proud of being a doctor.
He's proud of what he achieved.

Proud Of vs Happy For

PROUD OF

Feeling pride in someone's achievement

"I'm proud of you for graduating."

HAPPY FOR

Feeling joy on someone's behalf

"I'm happy for you about the new job."

Both expressions are correct but have slightly different meanings. Don't confuse them!

Choose the message you actually mean

Use proud of when you admire a person, achievement, or effort. Use happy for when you want to celebrate someone’s good news without implying a personal role in the achievement. Proud also works with to plus a verb or with a that-clause, so it is too broad to say that proud must always be followed by of.

Grammar patterns with explanations
PatternExampleWhy it works
AdmirationI am proud of the progress you have made.Of introduces the thing you admire.
Good newsI am happy for you about the new job.For identifies the person whose good fortune pleases you.
An actionWe are proud to support the project.To introduces a base-form verb.
A complete ideaI am proud that you kept trying.That introduces a clause with a subject and verb.
An achievementShe is proud of finishing the course.An -ing form can follow the preposition of.

Five practice questions with explanations

Try each sentence before opening its answer. Explain the rule aloud, then write a similar sentence of your own.

  1. I am proud ___ your hard work. (of / for)

    Show answer and explanation

    of

    Hard work is the thing being admired.

  2. We are proud ___ represent our school. (of / to)

    Show answer and explanation

    to

    Use proud to followed by the base verb represent.

  3. Your visa was approved! I am happy ___ you. (of / for)

    Show answer and explanation

    for

    Happy for is the natural way to celebrate another person’s good news.

  4. Rewrite with proud of: She is proud that she completed the race.

    Show answer and explanation

    She is proud of completing the race.

    After of, use a noun or -ing form rather than a complete clause.

  5. Correct this sentence: They are proud of to help.

    Show answer and explanation

    They are proud to help.

    Proud to help and proud of helping are possible patterns; do not combine of and to.

Reference: Cambridge Dictionary: proud. Examples and exercises are written for this lesson.

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